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This is the Site Index Page for the Joy2MeU2.com Web Site of Robert Burney and his self publishing company Joy to You & Me Enterprises.

 

Joy2MeU2.com is mobile friendly and includes links to articles on Joy2MeU.com and to those articles on mobile friendly sites.

Welcome to

Joy2MeU#2

The newly designed site index page for Joy2MeU2 / Joy2MeU Web Site of Spiritual Teacher, codependency counselor, author Robert Burney 
and Joy to You & Me Enterprises

Robert Burney is a pioneer in the area of codependency recovery / inner child healing. His first book Codependence The Dance of Wounded Souls has been called "one of the truly transformational works of our time” - and his work described as "taking inner child healing to a new level."  His website http://joy2meu.com offers over 200 pages of free original content on codependency recovery, inner child healing, relationship dynamics, alcoholism/addiction, fear of intimacy, Twelve Step Spirituality, New Age Metaphysics, emotional abuse, setting boundaries, grief process, and much more.  The Joy2MeU website - which Robert launched in February 1999 - is designed in an ancient design program which is not mobile friendly.  This site - joy2meu2.com which is being launched in May 2018 - is a redesign of the joy2meu.com home page and site index page in mobile friendly format to link people to his free original content on sites that provide a mobile friendly format.  The plan was to just provide these two pages on this site #2 - but it changed already and an Update Newsletter has been added.

Robert is the author of the

Joyously inspirational book

Codependence:  
The Dance of Wounded Souls

February 14, 2019Joy2MeU2 Update Newsletter February 2019

October 5, 2019:  The latest additions & news about Robert and his web sites are on the 

Joy2MeU New & News Page or Mobile Friendly version

2019 Holiday Sale - Sale page

December 6, 2019:  Announcing a Workshop in Morro Bay CA January 26th 2020

2/14/19 - "It is very sad.  It is very sad that we have had our hearts broken.  It is very sad that we have let go of getting our needs met.  It is very sad that it is so hard to connect with another being in a healthy, Loving way.  It is very sad that so many of us have had to shut down our hearts and lock the romantic part of us away in a deep dark place within us.

It is very sad - but it is truly tragic that we blame ourselves.  We have been victimized by society's dysfunctional programming and we beat up on the victim of those forces that we were powerless over.” - Healthy Relationships - Part 7, Valentine's Day 2000

 

Below are listed the index pages of Joy2meu.com on the right - and on the left are mobile friendly websites with most of the articles from the Joy2MeU.

Mobile - Inner Child Healing:

healyourinnerchild.com

Inner Child Healing - How to begin

 

Inner Child Healing - Why Do It?

Learning to Love our self 

Loving the Wounded Child Within

Feeling the Feelings

Co-Creation: Owning your Power to Manifest Love 

Grief, Love, & Fear of Intimacy

Fear of Intimacy - The Wounded Heart of Codependency

Reprogramming our dysfunctional ego defenses

Internal Boundaries - the key to emotional balance

Conscious Internal Boundaries

Inner Child Healing Paradigm

Inner Awareness - Internal Census

Union Within - healing the inner child

Union Within - healing the inner child - 5 years later

Inner Child Healing Techniques

Setting Boundaries with inner children 

The Inner Children that need Boundaries

Sanctuary Trauma ~ memories and emotional honesty

Common Emotional Defenses

Positive Affirmations

More on Positive Affirmations

Recovery from Codependency / Inner Child Healing

Grief Process Techniques

Grieving - examples of how the process works

The Recovery Process for inner child healing:

Part 1: My Recovery Process and Taking Action

The Recovery Process for inner child healing - spiritual integration

The Recovery Process for Inner Child Healing - Through the Fear

Part 4: A Dance of Emotional Balance

Part 5: the process of processing

Part 6: The Process of Processing 2

Inner Child Healing - Choosing a therapist or counselor with discernment

Assignments for Jump Starting Codependency Recovery

 

Emotional Incest - emotionally devastating child abuse

Mobile - Alcoholism pages: 

twelvestepmiracle.com

The Death of an Alcoholic - codependency kills alcoholic

Questions about Alcoholism

Grave Emotional and Mental Disorders - AA language for Codependence

Serenity and Expectations - intimately interrelated

Gratitude - a Vital Tool in the Recovery Process

To Parents of Alcoholics / Addicts

Enabling & Rescuing vs Tough Love

The Miracle of The Twelve Step Recovery Process - a formula for integration and balance

The Miracle of The Twelve Step Recovery Process: The first three steps

The Miracle of The Twelve Step Process: Step 4 inventory

The Miracle of The Twelve Step Process: 4 thru 9 "The Clean Up Steps."

The Miracle of The Twelve Step Process: Steps 10 thru 12 - The Maintenance Steps

Mobile - Spiritual Beliefs:

abundantspirituality.com

Mystical Metaphysical Spirituality - a Loving belief system

A Kinder, Gentler, Cosmic Perspective of Spirituality

Spiritual/Metaphysical Truth (with a capital T) vs emotional truth

Loving and Nurturing self on your Spiritual Path

Powerlessness & Empowerment - why the 12 steps work

The Twelve Steps, different interpretations

The Twelve Steps - a formula for Spiritual integration

Spirituality for Agnostics and Atheists

The Recovery Process for inner child healing - spiritual integration

 

Serenity Prayer series

Discernment - The Wisdom to Know the Difference in Serenity Prayer

Serenity - Accepting the things we cannot change

Intellectual Discernment - focused within

Emotional Discernment - taking power away from the fear 

Intellectual Discernment - shutting up the critical voice

Emotional Discernment - Watch how you speak

Intellectual Discernment - "have to" and the Holiday Season

Emotional Discernment - disarming the emotional mine field within

Intellectual Discernment - Choices, not "shoulds"

Higher Power of my own understanding series

A Higher Power of my own understanding

A Higher Power of my own understanding 2 - the beginning of empowerment

Spirituality - a broader perspective

Inspiration from the Big Book of Alcoholic Anonymous

God the Father, and my father 

Quantum Physics - expanding my Spiritual paradigm

Vibrational Dance

Love as a vibrational frequency

Balance on the horizontal, Integration of the vertical

Higher Power of my own understanding - final word

Mobile - Romantic Relationships

healthyromanticrelationships.com

Toxic Love - the dysfunctional, addictive, cultural norm

 

Relationships and Valentine's Day

Wedding Prayer / Meditation on Romantic Commitment

The Heart Break of Romantic Relationship

The Heart Break of Romantic Relationship - part 2

The Heart Break of Romantic Relationship - part 3

The Emotional Dynamics of Dysfunctional Romantic Relationships

The Emotional Dynamics of Dysfunctional Romantic Relationships 2

Codependent Dysfunctional Relationships Dynamics 

Part 1 - Power Struggle

Part 2 - Dysfunctional Definition of Love

Part 3 - Codependent & Counterdependent 

Part 4 - Come Here, Go Away

Healthy Romantic Relationships 

Part 1 Interdependent, not codependent

Part 2 Communication is Key

Part 3 Emotional Honesty Necessary

Part 4 Partners in the Journey

Part 5 Healthy Joyous Sexuality

Part 6 Romantic Love as a Concept 

Part 7 Valentine's Day 2000

Part 8 Pay Attention and Communicate

Part 9 The Greatest Arena for Spiritual growth

An Adventure in Love - Loving and Losing Successfully

Letting Go of Unavailable People

A series of 14 (3 more are not on Mobile friendly site) articles focused on issues involving gender, sexuality, romantic relationships which evolved into articles focused on fear of intimacy:

Men and Women are from the same planet

The Maiden and the Horndog

Old tapes / traditional beliefs and gender roles for men and women

Monogamy - A Spiritual Teachers Perspective

Setting Internal Boundaries in relationship to Romantic, Sexual Relationships

Taking self worth out of the equation in Romantic Relationships 

Falling in love as a choice

Homosexuality - and the Bible

The Crippling Shame of Incest / Sexual Abuse

Sexuality Abuse - the legacy of shame based culture 

Emotional Incest = Sexuality Abuse

Energetic Attraction - emotional familiarity or Karmic connection?

 

Emotional Intimacy = in to me see

 

Fear of Intimacy - Relationship Phobia

Mobile: Miscellaneous Topics / Former Online Columns

Some articles from this section are on woundedsouls.com and several others I am substituting blog versions of those pages.

Empowerment and Victimization - the power of choice

Emotional Incest - emotionally devastating child abuse

The Journey to the Emotional Frontier Within - emotional defense mechanisms

Further Journeys to the Emotional Frontier Within 

Roles In Dysfunctional Families

Holidays, Anniversaries, and Birthdays

Obsession / Obsessive Thinking Part 1

 

Obsession / Obsessive Thinking Part 2

Letting Go of Unavailable People

Password Protected Areas of Joy2MeU

Dancing in Light

Information & Table of Contents (page not mobile friendly)
In September 2005 I created this new section of my site. It includes 28 pages that were formerly on Joy2MeU.com that are now in this password protected pay to view section of the site - 10 Chapters from the online book: Attack on America - A Spiritual Healing Perspective and Call for Higher Consciousness, the final 4 articles of the series of articles on The True Nature of Love, and including the last 13 chapters of Codependency Recovery: Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light Book 2 A Dysfunctional Relationship with Life.  The first two chapters of this Book 2
 are available on mobile friendly sites and several others that I have published as blogs are included here.

Chapter 1 The codependency movement is NOT ruining marriages!

Chapter 2 The codependency movement is NOT ruining marriages! Part 2 Romantic Relationships & Toxic Love ~ Marriage & Divorce

Chapter 4: False Self Image

 

Chapter 5: Codependency = conditioned reactive programming ~ Pavlov's Dog

 

Chapter 8: Codependents as Emotional Vampires

 

Chapter 10: Normal Families are Dysfunctional

Chapter 13: Changing the Music: Love instead of fear and shame

Joy2MeU Journal

Information Page & Table of Contents (not mobile friendly)

The Joy2MeU Journal is a publication I started in early 1999.  It turned into something very intimately personal.  Starting in 1999 and continuing through the end of 2004 I shared in this Journal a personal journal where I was processing through my fear of intimacy issues.  There are at least a couple of million words of my history and processing in this body of work.

This Journal is "a body of work in a password protected part of the site where Robert published the story of his Spiritual Path (11 part), an ongoing personal recovery journal (58 installments), Attack on America (11 Chapters) online book not available on regular Joy2MeU site, and portions of his Trilogy (14 Chapters of a Magical, Mystical, Spiritual Fable)"

Both the story of my spiritual path and the personal journal are called:

 

The Path of one Recovering Codependent

~ the dance of one wounded soul 

and it includes the story of my conscious commitment to codependency recovery on June 3rd 1986. The Story of Joy2MeU

&

The story of the Miracles in my recovery that led me to Cambria California (originally shared in October 2005 Update Newsletter)

&

In the Premier edition of the Joy2MeU Journal, I shared in the Newsletter about an experience I had on April 1st 1990. I refer to it as my April Fools Day Lesson about falling in love

 

The Trilogy is the first writing I did starting in the fall of 1988.  It is a Magical, Mystical, Spiritual Fable which includes a history of the Universe unlike any which has ever been written.  This is a book that will never be finished but writing this work helped me build and refine the foundation for my spiritual Belief system – and later spawned my book:  Codependence: The Dance of the Wounded Souls.

The Dance of the Wounded Souls Trilogy Book 1 - "In The Beginning . . ." 

A Magical, Mystical, Spiritual Fable

History of the Universe Part I The Creation dream

 

My Update Newsletters

There are 55 Update Newsletters - some of which contain quite a bit of content about my growth process over the years, in addition to announcements about what has been added to Joy2MeU and news of Joy to You & Me. None of them are on mobile friendly sites - although some things that I added to Update Newsletter (like the Miracles story above - and the one just below) - have been published as blogs on mobile friendly wordpress.com.

I included in March 2007 Update Newsletter (that I later published in the blog linked here) about healing my relationship with my own masculine energy that includes excerpts from the Trilogy and Journal.

Here are the list of Update Newsletters on Joy2MeU siteindex page - which is not mobile friendly.

Mobile friendly versions of some of pages in right column:

Book Ordering information

Author's Foreword to Book

Author's Biographical info (not as up to date as one on Joy2MeU)

Telephone / Skype Counseling

Life Changing Workshop

MP3 Downloads

 

update 12/7 Mobile Friendly New & News page

Mobile friendly landing site: recoverycodependence.com

Joy2MeU.com:

Romantic Relationships Pages index

Toxic Love - the dysfunctional, addictive, cultural norm

Romantic Relationships and Valentine's Day

Wedding Prayer/Meditation on Romantic Commitment

The Heartbreak of Romantic Relationships

Part 2 of Heartbreak

Part 3 of Heartbreak

The Emotional Dynamics of Dysfunctional Relationships

Part 2 of Emotional Dynamics

Codependent Relationships Dynamics - part 1

Codependent Relationships Dynamics -part 2

Codependent Relationships Dynamics - part 3

Codependent Relationships Dynamics - part 4

Healthy Romantic Relationships - Interdependent, not codependent

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 2

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 3

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 4

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 5

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 6

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 7

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 8

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 9

 

An Adventure in Romance - Loving & Losing Successfully

Letting Go of Unavailable People 

 

A series of 17 articles focused on issues involving gender, sexuality, romantic relationships which evolved into articles focused on fear of intimacy:

Men and Women are from the same planet

The Maiden and the Horndog

Old tapes / traditional beliefs and gender roles

Monogamy - A Spiritual Teachers Perspective

Setting Internal Boundaries in relationship to Romantic, Sexual Relationships

Taking self worth out of the equation in Romantic Relationships

Falling in love as a choice

Homosexuality - and the Bible

The Crippling Shame of Incest / Sexual Abuse

Sexuality Abuse

Emotional Incest = Sexuality Abuse

Energetic Attraction - emotional familiarity or Karmic connection?

 Emotional Intimacy = in to me see

Fear of Intimacy -  Relationship Phobia

Codependent Defenses - Part 1 The Gatekeeper

Codependent Defenses - Part 2 disassociation vs healthy detachment

Codependent Defenses - Part 3 My Gatekeeper

Joy2MeU.com

Miscellaneous Topics Pages

 

Empowerment

 

Self Worth

 

Emotional Incest

 

Emotional Defenses

 

Emotional Defenses 2

 

Stinking Thinking

 

Emotional Release Techniques

 

Roles In Dysfunctional Families

 

Holidays, Anniversaries, and Birthdays

Obsession / Obsessive Thinking Part 1

Obsession / Obsessive Thinking Part 2

Letting Go of Unavailable People 

 

Wounded Parents

 

Mothers

 

Fathers

The True Nature of Love - Part 1, what Love is not

The True Nature of Love - Part 2, Love as Freedom

The True Nature of Love - Part 3, Love as a Vibrational Frequency

The True Nature of Love - Part 4, Energetic Clarity

The True Nature of Love - Part 5, Romantic Relationships 

The True Nature of Love - Part 6, Twin Souls, Souls Mates, Kindred Spirits

Buddha, Buddhism, and Japanese cultural dysfunction

Buddhism II and Communicating Clearly

Attack on America - A Spiritual Healing Perspective - 9/23/01

 

Attack on America - contents of online book

The pages linked below are not mobile friendly.

Information Pages Index 

Book Ordering information 

Author's Foreword to Book

Author's Biographical info  

Telephone Counseling

 

Phone Counseling Testimonials

 

Intensive Training Day workshop

 

Intensive Training Day Testimonials

Find CoDA Meetings

Site Search Engine

The Wounded Souls Trilogy

Special Offers page

New & news page

 

Password protected areas (see descriptions on left):

Dancing in Light 

Information & Table of Contents

Joy2MeU Journal

* lifetime of Joy2MeU.com

 I used to post Update Newsletters regularly but haven’t done that for a couple of years and am not sure if I ever will again - but I do send out special announcements periodically.  I explain my reasons for doing that and give the most recent updates (September 2017) on a page dedicated to my grandson Darien.

New June 2018 Update Newsletter

February 14, 2019Update Newsletter Feb. 2019

Here are the list of Update Newsletters on Joy2MeU siteindex page.

 Contact Robert  

Joy2MeU Web Site @ http://Joy2MeU.com -  Launched 2-4-99    

My original Joy to You & Me Web Site @ http://www.silcom.com/~joy2meu  -  Launched 2-28-98

Joy to You & Me Enterprises is the publishing company that Robert formed to publish his book in 1995.  

Joy to You & Me Enterprises   PO Box 1028   Cambria Ca. 93428   805-203-5875

Joy2MeU2  Home              Joy2MeU Home

Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls by Robert Burney is copyright 1995. Material on Joy2MeU web site (except where otherwise noted) is copyright 1996 through 2019 by Robert Burney PO Box 1028 Cambria CA 93428

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